Fireproof marriage is a movie. Mr F suruh tengok. So, tengok aje la..at first he gave me a link www.fireproofmymarriage.com. Website ni nampak macam ada unsur Christianity. I was wondering. Tapi bila tengok movie ni dekat youtube. It was awesome. Ada unsur agama tapi banyak element dalam relationship yang nak disampaikan.
Movie ni nampak simple, but very inspired. Masa mula2 tengok rasa macam perkahwinan ni satu benda yang scary plak. Looks like people change after they got married. Maybe because they think that they already got the person they want, seems they usually take their partner for granted.
This movie is about a couple who were married about 7 years. They had no children. I guess they want to put aside the child factor because strong marriage is multifactorial. Diorang ni kawen atas dasar cinta tapi bila dah kawen lain plak jadinye.
Below are some quote or I can say tips or advices for a strong marriage that we can learn from this movie. Beriya plak nak review kan..nasib la korang nak baca ke tak..nak share jugak:P
1) Fireproof your marriage
- Fireproof doesn't mean the fire will never come. It means when the fire come you will be able to withstand it.
2)Study your spouse(especially women)
-When a man is trying to win the heart of a woman, he studies her. He learns her likes,dislikes,habits and hobbies. But after he wins her heart and marries her, he stops learning about her. If the amount he studied her before marriage was equal to a high school degree, her should continue to learn about her until he gains a college degree, a master's degree and ultimately a Doctorate degree. (quote paling menarik dlm movie ni)
3)Treat women in soft way
- A woman is like a rose, if you treat her right, she'll bloom, if you don't she'll wilt.
-It is better to hold your tongue than to say something you'll regret.
-Be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to get angry
4)Men want to be respectful
5)Man should be a good listener
-When woman is in a stressful situation, she need someone to talk to and to listen her problem. She usually not seeking help or advice. She just want to express her feelings. But, man always thought that woman is nagging. So man, just listen to what she want to tell you..after that you can see she is relieved.
-Man always sweet and romantic before they get marry. Even after your marriage, flowers, candle light dinner, chocolate or even dress would be a very good investment to create a more lively marriage like you were dating before
This is a bit into religious like what I said before. But, each of us believe in our own God. So, if you think you love your wife but she still reject ypu and dont want to love her anymore because you don't get rewarded from her. Think about GOD. Even though you always forget HIM, he still love you as HE created you before. Love is unconditional. If you understand this you can understand the true love.
wahhhh...hebat gilos dah rasa bagi review. Macam Doctor Love dah..hahaha
Sorry la review ni very into feminism..not because I'm a woman. Tapi sebab movie ni mengisahkan lelaki yang nak memenangi hati wife dia balik sebelum dia sign surat cerai..